Have you ever thought about how our lives are FILLED with opposites? It snows during spring, someone you love hurts your feelings, or your favorite show makes you cry. Although opposites, both exist and both are true. A “dialectic” is just that - when two opposing things are true at once. Guess what? Our world is filled with them.

Have you ever experienced the flow state? Spoiler alert: You probably have without even realizing it! Allow me to describe it to you: The flow state is a sense of fluidity between your body and mind. You are totally absorbed and deeply focused on something to the point where distractions don’t phase you. Time feels as though it slowed down. You are fully immersed in what you are doing. Some people describe this feeling as being “in the zone.”

Self-soothing is a Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) skill that helps us manage difficult feelings and situations and tolerate things that we cannot change. Self-soothing is a set of techniques that use different senses of the body. And it is critical to wellness!

We all experience cognitive distortions from time to time. But persistent and inaccurate cognitive distortions can lead to prolonged feelings of anxiety and depression. The quality and way we think and talk to ourselves impacts how we see ourselves, others, and the world.

Hard work and high expectations are often rewarded in our society. We can see these traits being praised and rewarded all around us, including at work and in school. So what happens when your child’s hard work and expectations of themself go beyond what is reasonable or helpful? Where do we draw the line between healthy striving and unhelpful perfectionism? How do you support your child when their need to succeed, achieve, and get things “just right” seems to cause them such pain and distress?

We’ve all gotten caught up in the whirlwind of living the life of a human. When we get used to living fast paced lives, we can sometimes overlook the small things that make life worth living. Taking a moment to reflect and truly appreciate all the things going well in life is a very valuable practice.

Validation is when you let someone (or yourself) know that you understand how they’re feeling. Think of it in terms of getting your parking validated at a movie theater. When that little machine stamps your parking ticket, it’s essentially telling the other ticket machine in the parking lot, “Yes, Graham did in fact go to the movies.” When we validate ours or others’ emotions, all we are doing is saying, “Yes, you are, in fact, feeling that way.”

Doing differently isn’t easy. And being told to “just make better choices” is not useful or can be hurtful. Sometimes we need a step-by-step strategy to figure out what went wrong and how to do better next time. In walks Missing Links Analysis.

We’re all experiencing some level of suffering and sadness after the Texas school shooting and the Highland Park (a Chicago suburb) parade shooting. Beyond these terrible attacks, community violence has been an all too frequent reality in many Chicago neighborhoods.

Did you know having a routine does not mean sitting in an office or classroom every day for the same number of hours?! Chances are you have more routine in your life than you realize! Your routine could be trying a new restaurant every week, using your favorite calming lotion before bed, or always having a sweet treat after dinner. A routine can even consist of setting aside time every day to have no routine at all! Whatever your personal routine may be, there is extensive evidence on the correlation between life satisfaction and a routine.

Mindful eating is simply slowing down and tuning in to the present moment during the process of eating. Below are a few ways one can practice mindful eating.

Mindfulness is an age-old practice that involves paying attention to the present moment, and it really can be just that easy to do.

There’s so much to love about summer- school’s out, camps, more free time, warm weather, hanging with friends, and the list goes on and on! Time seems to fly when you’re having fun doesn’t it? So why practice mindfulness when you’re already feeling so good?

Congratulations to Mind Chicago’s Co-owner and Clinical Director, Lee Wells, AM, LCSW, for her 2022 spotlight feature with the Association of Behavioral and Cognitive Therapies (ABCT)

Mind Chicago therapist, Abbas Chinoy, AM, MDiv, LCSW, was featured on the Just Mental Health Podcast in January 2022! Listen to his conversation on spirituality, mental health, and flying kites with the hosts, Em and Steph.

Black History Month is a time of year that we can reconnect and recommit to justice in mental wellness, as well as honor and highlight a truthful history.

There’s much to love about Thanksgiving - the food, time with family and friends, and cranberry sauce. But our favorite part of Thanksgiving is the opportunity for gratitude.

Movement not only improves your health but also your emotional well-being.

When you start a neuropsychological evaluation at Mind, the first question you will hear is “What do you want to know about your child?”

From vacations to camping trips, parents are eagerly seeking new and creative ways to reconnect with their children after a challenging year and a half. In fact, some of those families are trying their hand at improv. Yes, you heard right, I said IMPROV! If you instantly recoiled, I understand. Improvisational theatre sounds intimidating. However, I’m going to provide you a simple introductory technique to help you enjoy this fun and meaningful activity and deepen your relationship with your child. But first, let me tell you a little about improv.